Abbin hev\u00f0i fingi\u00f0 vitjan av s\u00ednum barnab\u00f8rnum. \u00dat \u00e1 seinnapartin fekk hann s\u00e6r sum vanligt ein blund \u00e1 sofuni. T\u00e1 abbin var sovna\u00f0ur, fingu b\u00f8rnini eitt hugskot. Tey \u00e6tla\u00f0u s\u00e6r at arga abban, me\u00f0an hann l\u00e1 og svav. Tey funnu ein gamlan r\u00e6stan ost \u00ed k\u00f8lisk\u00e1pinum. Hetta skuldu tey br\u00faka til at arga abban vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Tey f\u00f3ru varliga til abban, sum l\u00e1 \u00ed fasta sv\u00f8vni, og settu eitt petti av t\u00ed stinkandi ostinum \u00ed skeggi\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0an goymdu tey seg og v\u00f3ru spent at vita, hvat n\u00fa f\u00f3r at henda. Eftir einari l\u00edtlari l\u00f8tu vakna\u00f0i abbin. Hann leg\u00f0i til merkis, at ta\u00f0 lukta\u00f0i so illa. Hann gekk um \u00ed stovuni, men hann fann ikki \u00fatav, hva\u00f0an lukturin kom. Hann f\u00f3r \u00ed k\u00f8kin, gongina, ba\u00f0ir\u00fami\u00f0 og k\u00f8murini. Men alla sta\u00f0ni lukta\u00f0i l\u00edka illa.<\/p>\n
Abbin f\u00f3r \u00fat \u00ed gar\u00f0in, men har lukta\u00f0i eisini l\u00edka illa.<\/p>\n
So hann seg\u00f0i: \\”Allur heimurin stinkar!\\”<\/p>\n
Henda l\u00edtla s\u00f8ga kann l\u00e6ra okkum n\u00f3gv um sambandi\u00f0 millum hugbur\u00f0 og t\u00e6r umst\u00f8\u00f0ur, sum vit m\u00f8ta.<\/p>\n
Okkara hugbur\u00f0 taka vit vi\u00f0 okkum alla sta\u00f0ni, har vit koma. Vit m\u00f8ta avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingum og umst\u00f8\u00f0um vi\u00f0 okkara hugbur\u00f0i. Spurningurin er, um vit hava jaligan ella neiligan hugbur\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Vit kunnu siga, at hugbur\u00f0ur er m\u00e1tin vit hugsa um onkran ella okkurt. Ta\u00f0 er m\u00e1tin ein ber seg at m\u00f3ti \u00f8\u00f0rum, og sum v\u00edsir, hvat ein hugsar og kennir.<\/p>\n
\u00c1virkanin av t\u00ed neiliga hugbur\u00f0inum ver\u00f0ur v\u00e6l l\u00fdst \u00ed s\u00f8guni um abban og stinkandi ostin.
\nTann stinkandi lukturin var ikki \u00ed h\u00fasinum ella uttanfyri. Lukturin var hj\u00e1 abbanum, ikki \u00ed umhv\u00f8rvinum.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk vi\u00f0 neiligum hugbur\u00f0i m\u00f8ta umst\u00f8\u00f0um og avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingum vi\u00f0 einum neiligum \u00fatgangsst\u00f8\u00f0i og sj\u00f3narhorni. Umst\u00f8\u00f0urnar ver\u00f0a tulka\u00f0ar vi\u00f0 neiligum brillum. Og \u00farsliti\u00f0 er, at ein s\u00e6r bara trupulleikar og for\u00f0ingar \u00edsta\u00f0in fyri loysnir og m\u00f8guleikar.<\/p>\n
Vit vita, at okkara hugbur\u00f0ur og innstillingur \u00e1virka okkara l\u00edv sera n\u00f3gv. \u00d8ll kenna vit, hvussu neiligur hugbur\u00f0ur \u00f3r\u00f3gvar og skapar m\u00f3tloysi og kann k\u00f8va l\u00edvsm\u00f3ti\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Ta\u00f0 er ikki ta\u00f0, sum hendir okkum, i\u00f0 er ta\u00f0 t\u00fddningarmiklasta og avgerandi \u2013 men ta\u00f0, sum hendir innan \u00ed okkum!<\/p>\n
Rith\u00f8vundurin og lei\u00f0slur\u00e1\u00f0gevin John C. Maxwell skrivar \u00ed einari av s\u00ednum mongu b\u00f3kum hesi or\u00f0, sum eru verd at grunda \u00e1:\u201cEg eri sannf\u00f8rdur um, at l\u00edvi\u00f0 er 10% ta\u00f0, sum hendir m\u00e6r, og 90%, hvussu eg beri meg at \u00ed mun til ta\u00f0, i\u00f0 hendir m\u00e6r.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vit kunnu ikki st\u00fdra \u00f8llum umst\u00f8\u00f0unum, men vit kunnu st\u00fdra okkara hugsanum og hugbur\u00f0um til umst\u00f8\u00f0urnar.<\/p>\n
Lei\u00f0sla er \u00e1virkan. Og lei\u00f0arin \u201csmittar\u201d vi\u00f0 s\u00ednum hugbur\u00f0i tey, sum hann lei\u00f0ir.<\/p>\n
Ta\u00f0 er sera umr\u00e1\u00f0andi, at lei\u00f0arar ganga undan vi\u00f0 einum jaligum hugbur\u00f0i og geva \u00edbl\u00e1stur \u00edsta\u00f0in fyri at k\u00f8va og skapa \u00f3tryggleika. Tann g\u00f3\u00f0i lei\u00f0arin hevur ein vinnarahugbur\u00f0 og skapir eina vinnaramentan. Hetta merkir ikki, at ein heldur, at alt er \u00ed lagi og at ein ikki tekur st\u00f3rar avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingar \u00ed \u00e1lvara, t\u00e1 i\u00f0 st\u00f8\u00f0an \u00ed roynd og veru er \u00e1lvarsom. Nei, lei\u00f0arin vi\u00f0 t\u00ed jaliga hugbur\u00f0inum er realistiskur, men s\u00e6r trupulleikar sum avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingar, sum kunnu menna og gera einstaklingar og organisati\u00f3nir sterkari.<\/p>\n
Okkara avbj\u00f3\u00f0ing er at menna ein sunnan og jaligan hugbur\u00f0 til umst\u00f8\u00f0urnar og l\u00edvi\u00f0 sum heild.<\/p>\n
12 nj\u00f3snarar v\u00f3r\u00f0u sendir inn \u00ed K\u00e1na\u00b4ansland at kanna landi\u00f0, \u00e1v\u00f8kstin og f\u00f3lki\u00f0 har. Allir v\u00f3ru vitni til ta\u00f0 sama, men allir komu ikki til somu ni\u00f0urst\u00f8\u00f0u.<\/p>\n
10 nj\u00f3snarar s\u00f8gdu: \u201cVit kl\u00e1ra ta\u00f0 ikki. Vit eru ov veikir og f\u00f3lki\u00f0 er sterkari. Vit fara at tapa.\u201d<\/p>\n
Kaleb og Josva h\u00f8vdu ein heilt annan hugbur\u00f0, ein vinnarahugbur\u00f0. Teir s\u00f8gdu: \u201cVit vinna. \u00cd landinum er n\u00f3gv gott. Har eru n\u00f3gvir m\u00f8guleikar.\u201d<\/p>\n
Og hvat var\u00f0 \u00farsliti\u00f0? Bert Kaleb og Josva komu inn \u00ed ta\u00f0 lova\u00f0a landi\u00f0. Teir 10 nj\u00f3snararnir og hini f\u00f3lkini komu ikki inn \u00ed landi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Her s\u00edggja vit sera greitt munin \u00e1 neiligum hugbur\u00f0i (taparamentan) og jaligum hugbur\u00f0i (vinnaramentan).
\nVinnarahugbur\u00f0urin leiddi til landi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 yvirfl\u00f3\u00f0 av \u00e1v\u00f8kstri.
\nTaparahugbur\u00f0urin leiddi til oy\u00f0imarkagongd.<\/p>\n
Hvussu kunnu vit broyta hugbur\u00f0? Eingin skj\u00f3t og l\u00f8tt loysn er t\u00f8k. Her eru t\u00f3 n\u00f8kur r\u00e1\u00f0:<\/p>\n
–<\/strong> Frem eina erliga eftirmeting av t\u00ednum hugsanum og hugbur\u00f0um. Lati\u00f0 okkum vi\u00f0 jaligum hugbur\u00f0i m\u00f8ta \u00f8llum teimum avbj\u00f3\u00f0ingum, sum eru partur av okkara l\u00edvi. T\u00ed hugbur\u00f0urin ger allan munin.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Abbin hev\u00f0i fingi\u00f0 vitjan av s\u00ednum barnab\u00f8rnum. \u00dat \u00e1 seinnapartin fekk hann s\u00e6r sum vanligt ein blund \u00e1 sofuni. T\u00e1 abbin var sovna\u00f0ur, fingu b\u00f8rnini eitt hugskot. Tey \u00e6tla\u00f0u s\u00e6r at arga abban, me\u00f0an hann l\u00e1 og svav. Tey funnu ein gamlan r\u00e6stan ost \u00ed k\u00f8lisk\u00e1pinum. Hetta skuldu tey br\u00faka til at arga abban vi\u00f0. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-innlegg"],"yoast_head":"\n
\n–<\/strong> Hugsa um, hvussu t\u00fa hugsar. Legg serliga til merkis, hvussu t\u00fa hugsa\u00f0i, t\u00e1 i\u00f0 t\u00fa t\u00e6r seinastu fer\u00f0irnar m\u00f8tti st\u00f3rum trupulleikum.
\n–<\/strong> Vi\u00f0urkenn og ey\u00f0merk neiligar ella skeivar hugsanir\/hugbur\u00f0ar. Ver erligur fyri t\u00e6r sj\u00e1lvum.
\n–<\/strong> Tosa vi\u00f0 onkran, sum t\u00fa hevur \u00e1lit \u00e1, um t\u00ednar abvj\u00f3\u00f0ingar og ynski um broyting. Hetta kann vera ein st\u00f3r hj\u00e1lp.
\n–<\/strong> Input \u00e1virkar output. Lat ta\u00f0 jaliga f\u00e1a r\u00fam \u00ed t\u00ednum tonkum og l\u00edvi. Ra\u00f0fest samveru vi\u00f0 jalig og konstruktiv f\u00f3lk. Les g\u00f3\u00f0ar b\u00f8kur. Lurta eftir g\u00f3\u00f0um t\u00f3nleiki. Ver saman vi\u00f0 familjuni. Ra\u00f0fest h\u00f8gt ta\u00f0, i\u00f0 gevur t\u00e6r orku.
\n–<\/strong> Vit mugu ikki gloyma, at vit eisini vi\u00f0 at broyta vanar og atfer\u00f0 kunnu \u00e1virka og broyta okkara hugsanir og hugbur\u00f0. Royn at br\u00f3ta \u00e1v\u00eds mynstur og atfer\u00f0. Ja, ta\u00f0 er trupult og avbj\u00f3\u00f0andi, men royn! Sum fr\u00e1l\u00ed\u00f0ur fert t\u00fa at leggja til merkis, at teir n\u00fdggju jaligu vanarnir hava jaliga \u00e1virkan \u00e1 t\u00edn hugsanarh\u00e1tt.<\/p>\n